Spectating matters. Healthy Spectating part 1

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For any type of public performance, your kid wants you to spectate. They want you to see them do their thing and be present through it all. They want to know that when they look up into the stands, they can see you rooting and cheering for them. It’s comforting and exciting all in one.

And for physical sports, a piano recital, or a school play, most of the time you know what to do. Yeah, there are times when certain parents (thank God not you) get a little sideways but for the most part, they get it.

But with gaming and esports? Hmmm, not so much.

Yet, for parents whose kids are active in gaming or esports, knowing how to be a healthy spectator can seem less straightforward. Some don’t like gaming, some don’t understand the draw of video games, and some are willing but just don’t even know where to begin.

The good news is that the same supportive behaviors from traditional sports and activities translate to gaming. This is the first post of four that share ways to help you understand why and how to be a healthy spectator.

The Why:

Being a healthy spectator for gaming kids means more than just being present. It means creating an environment where your gamer feels valued, supported, and understood. Just as most parents wouldn’t criticize every missed goal or misplaced note, it’s crucial for you to approach gaming with the same grace and encouragement.

It’s helpful when you understand that positive spectating fosters a sense of confidence, strengthens the bond between you and your kid, and encourages your gamer to pursue their interests wholeheartedly. It’s not just about winning or losing; it’s about celebrating effort, progress, and soaking in the joy that gaming brings to them.

Helping parents understand these things is a big reason why Slingshot Esports exists. We want parents with gamer kids to be better equipped to create a healthy family dynamic so their kids can grow socially and spiritually while doing what they love.

Make the connection:

What are some potential ways or things we can do to be a healthy spectator?

We are #ForTheGamer and help players play with purpose and win for good


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